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Retrograde Ejaculation: When Orgasm Doesn’t Look the Way You Expect
There are moments in men’s sexual health where confusion speaks louder than pain. One of them is this: “I climaxed… but nothing came out.”

Shane Warren
Aug 20, 20243 min read


When No Answer Is, in Fact, NOT an Answer: The Impact of Silence in Communication
Silence in response to queries, discussions, or inquiries, it can leave individuals uncertain, confused, and emotionally impacted...

Shane Warren
Jun 22, 20243 min read


Painful Ejaculation: When Pleasure Hurts
Painful ejaculation isn’t talked about much, particularly in gay men’s spaces where sex is often framed as performance, stamina, confidence, and intensity. But when orgasm is followed by burning, aching, sharp discomfort, or deep pelvic pain, it can trigger anxiety very quickly.

Shane Warren
Apr 11, 20244 min read


When Desire Turns to Avoidance: Understanding Sexual Aversion
Sexual Aversion Disorder (often now understood under broader frameworks of sexual interest/arousal difficulties and trauma-informed models) describes a persistent fear, disgust, or anxiety response toward sexual contact. It is not simply a quiet libido. It is a protective response. And protection is always meaningful.

Shane Warren
Jun 8, 20234 min read


How to unlove someone? Falling out of love so I don't go insane…
Falling in love can be one of the most exhilarating experiences of life, but unloving someone can be equally challenging...

Shane Warren
May 16, 20233 min read


Penis Size Confidence & Overcoming Envy
Penis size is a topic that can cause a great deal of anxiety and insecurity in men. Many men feel envious of those who have a larger penis size and may struggle with confidence and self-esteem as a result. Holistic psychotherapy and hypnosis can offer a solution to help individuals overcome penis size envy and develop confidence and self-esteem.

Shane Warren
Apr 2, 20232 min read


Erection Boost Hypnotherapy
Erection Boost is a term used to describe the process of improving one's ability to achieve and maintain an erection during sexual activity.

Shane Warren
Dec 6, 20222 min read


Why it’s good to keep your pubes…
Pubic hair plays a multifaceted role in the realm of sex and sexual experiences.

Shane Warren
Dec 5, 20222 min read


Sexual Self Expression
Sexual self-expression refers to the ability to communicate one's sexual desires, needs, and boundaries in a healthy and respectful way.

Shane Warren
Nov 7, 20222 min read


Delaying Orgasm: Control, Confidence, and the Art of Staying Present
So let’s approach this not as a performance problem but as a nervous system conversation. Because delaying orgasm is not about clenching harder or distracting yourself with mental arithmetic. It is about learning how your body moves toward climax and how to gently guide that momentum.

Shane Warren
Oct 21, 20224 min read
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