SHANE​ WARREN

Let’s get curious. Let’s ask: Are we raising athletes, or are we raising humans? Are we coaching discipline, or are we conditioning dominance? Are we honouring the game, or just keeping score? Because when we let sport teach emotional intelligence, accountability, and grace under pressure, we build people who can handle life, not just the win.

As a therapist, I hate to break it to you, but… if your nervous system is stuck in survival mode, no amount of journaling, meditation apps, or positive affirmations are going to “fix” it. Don’t get me wrong, I love journaling and I’ve seen meditation change lives; that is why I prescribe and teach both in my work. But if your body is still running like it’s being chased by a sabre-toothed tiger, you can’t “mindset” your way out of it.

Here’s the psychological quirk: the longer it’s been since we’ve done something joyful, the more likely we are to delay doing it again. Yes, you read that right. The more starved we are for joy, the more we tell ourselves: “Not yet. I’ll wait until it’s extra special.”

Some reflections on the current state of our world, post-2024 U.S. election As the dust settles, many are left wondering...

What if I told you that the key to staying calm under pressure wasn’t hidden in a Himalayan cave, wasn’t reserved for monks in saffron robes, and didn’t require you to chant “om” for three hours before breakfast?

There are moments in men’s sexual health where confusion speaks louder than pain. One of them is this: “I climaxed… but nothing came out.”

Painful ejaculation isn’t talked about much, particularly in gay men’s spaces where sex is often framed as performance, stamina, confidence, and intensity. But when orgasm is followed by burning, aching, sharp discomfort, or deep pelvic pain, it can trigger anxiety very quickly.

Remember that taking care of yourself doesn't have to be complicated....

By adopting a positive perspective, individuals can easily navigate challenges and foster more meaningful and fulfilling life...

We have heard it before because it is true… Human beings are inherently social creatures, and the importance of being part of a community...