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A reflection for World Suicide Prevention Day
Suicide is preventable. Together, we can build a world where fewer families know this grief. A world where people don’t wait until it’s “too late” to ask for help. A world where, instead of silence, there is solidarity.

Shane Warren
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Taking the Gloves Off: Why Multiculturalism Doesn’t Scare Me (It Excites Me)
Multiculturalism does not scare me. In fact, it excites me. It inspires me. It challenges me to be a better version of myself. Because history shows us something very clearly: diverse societies don’t collapse - they thrive. They build richer cultures, stronger economies, and deeper opportunities for all of us to become our better selves.

Shane Warren
Sep 1, 20254 min read


Politics, Policy & People: When Democracy Feels Fractured
Those who have worked with me know I carry a deep fascination with politics. Not in the shallow theatre of who “wins the day,” but in the deeper way policy shapes how we live, how we feel, and even how we connect with one another. Politics, at its heart, is human psychology in action. And if we take a moment to look honestly at what’s happening in the world today, it’s hard not to feel a little unsettled.

Shane Warren
Aug 28, 20258 min read


When Sport Taught Discipline, Not Dominance (...and why we might need a bit more “coach with a clipboard” and a bit less “boss with a bullhorn”)
Let’s get curious. Let’s ask:
Are we raising athletes, or are we raising humans?
Are we coaching discipline, or are we conditioning dominance?
Are we honouring the game, or just keeping score?
Because when we let sport teach emotional intelligence, accountability, and grace under pressure, we build people who can handle life, not just the win.

Shane Warren
Aug 1, 20253 min read


Stress, Trauma & Why Your Nervous System Needs More Than Journaling
As a therapist, I hate to break it to you, but… if your nervous system is stuck in survival mode, no amount of journaling, meditation apps, or positive affirmations are going to “fix” it. Don’t get me wrong, I love journaling and I’ve seen meditation change lives; that is why I prescribe and teach both in my work. But if your body is still running like it’s being chased by a sabre-toothed tiger, you can’t “mindset” your way out of it.

Shane Warren
Jul 10, 20254 min read


Why We Keep Postponing Joy (and How to Stop Sabotaging Your Happiness)
Here’s the psychological quirk: the longer it’s been since we’ve done something joyful, the more likely we are to delay doing it again. Yes, you read that right. The more starved we are for joy, the more we tell ourselves: “Not yet. I’ll wait until it’s extra special.”

Shane Warren
Jun 1, 20254 min read


The Kindness Advantage: How Social Intelligence Outshines Power and Dominance
Some reflections on the current state of our world, post-2024 U.S. election As the dust settles, many are left wondering...

Shane Warren
Nov 7, 20244 min read


Calm Down, It’s Just Your Brain: 3 Ways Brain Science Can Help You Keep Your Cool
What if I told you that the key to staying calm under pressure wasn’t hidden in a Himalayan cave, wasn’t reserved for monks in saffron robes, and didn’t require you to chant “om” for three hours before breakfast?

Shane Warren
Nov 6, 20244 min read


Retrograde Ejaculation: When Orgasm Doesn’t Look the Way You Expect
There are moments in men’s sexual health where confusion speaks louder than pain. One of them is this: “I climaxed… but nothing came out.”

Shane Warren
Aug 20, 20243 min read


Painful Ejaculation: When Pleasure Hurts
Painful ejaculation isn’t talked about much, particularly in gay men’s spaces where sex is often framed as performance, stamina, confidence, and intensity. But when orgasm is followed by burning, aching, sharp discomfort, or deep pelvic pain, it can trigger anxiety very quickly.

Shane Warren
Apr 11, 20244 min read
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