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Date night is so important

I’m not the first to say this so I will not push on the matter, I just want to assert right now: date night is a must! It is way too easy as a couple to fall into the habit of just being parents and losing our individual identity within the roles we perform in the home. These roles most certainly will change us, they even add a bit of depth to who we are as characters on the stage of life; but they cannot be our only identity. It’s important as individuals and as a couple that you take time to invest in each other and continue to grow as a couple. One day the children will leave the home and you will have to spend more time together alone – this could be scary of exciting; it’s up to you!

It’s only natural to want to be touched sometimes

That’s right it is natural human desire to be touched – we all need to be hugged, kissed, tickled and as adults it’s just fine to want to be shagged! An all too familiar pattern that enters long term relationships, particularly those that have children in the household, is that we stop being physically intimate; yet continue to have the desire for a good f**k – don’t let this become a problem in your home… Make an effort to feel sexy as well as to be attractive to your partner. Talk about sex and your desire for it (or sometimes not). Be bold and brave to open up the discussion to explore different things… Just because we are parents it does not mean that we have to be celibate nor boring i

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